This Connecticut surrogacy FAQ addresses the most common questions we hear from women considering surrogacy. From basic eligibility requirements to the nitty-gritty details of working with intended parents, we’ll give you honest, straightforward answers that help you make an informed decision.
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Getting Started Questions: How Do I Begin My Surrogacy Journey in Connecticut?
What are the basic requirements to become a surrogate in Connecticut?
You’ll need to be between 21-45 years old (most agencies prefer 25-40), have completed at least one successful pregnancy, maintain a healthy BMI typically between 19-32, be a non-smoker for at least 12 months, and have completed your own family. You’ll also need to be financially stable and have a strong support system.
How long does the entire process take?
From initial application to delivery, the complete surrogacy journey typically takes 15-18 months.
This includes:
- 2-4 months for screening and matching
- 1-2 months for legal and medical preparation
- 2-3 months for the medical transfer process
- 9+ months for pregnancy.
What’s the first step I should take right now?
Start by honestly assessing is surrogacy right for me and researching what it’s really like by reading about what it’s like to be a surrogate mother.
We can connect you to reputable agencies today.
Legal and Safety Questions: Is Surrogacy Legal and Safe in Connecticut?
Is surrogacy legal in Connecticut?
Absolutely! Connecticut has some of the most surrogacy-friendly laws in the country. The state recognizes gestational surrogacy agreements as legally enforceable contracts and provides clear frameworks for establishing parental rights.
What legal protections do I have as a surrogate?
Connecticut law requires that surrogates have independent legal representation (paid for by intended parents), ensures you maintain medical decision-making autonomy, and provides clear frameworks for compensation and contract terms. You can’t be forced into medical procedures you don’t consent to.
What happens if something goes wrong?
Professional surrogacy contracts include provisions for various scenarios, including pregnancy complications, relationship difficulties, or changes in circumstances. Connecticut’s legal framework provides clear guidance for resolving disputes, and quality agencies offer support throughout any challenges.
Are surrogacy contracts enforceable in Connecticut?
Yes, Connecticut courts recognize and enforce properly executed surrogacy agreements. This legal enforceability protects both surrogates and intended parents, ensuring everyone’s rights and responsibilities are clearly defined and legally binding.
Money Questions: Can You Get Compensation for Being a Surrogate in Connecticut?
How much do surrogates earn in Connecticut?
First-time surrogates typically earn $50,000-60,000 in base compensation, while experienced surrogates can earn $60,000-70,000 or more. Total compensation packages often exceed $70,000-80,000 when including monthly allowances, medical expenses, and additional payments.
What’s included beyond base compensation?
Additional payments typically include:
- Monthly allowances ($200-300 per month)
- Maternity clothing allowance ($500-1,000)
- Multiples bonus for twins/triplets ($5,000-10,000)
- C-section delivery bonus ($2,000-3,000)
- Travel expenses for all medical appointments
- Childcare reimbursement during appointments
How and when do I get paid?
Most agencies provide monthly payments throughout pregnancy (typically 10 monthly installments starting after confirmed pregnancy), plus milestone bonuses for contract signing, embryo transfer, and pregnancy confirmation. All pregnancy-related medical expenses are covered separately.
Is surrogate compensation taxable?
Yes, surrogate compensation is generally considered taxable income. Most surrogates set aside 20-25% for taxes, though reimbursements for actual expenses (medical, travel) are typically not taxable. Consider consulting with a tax professional familiar with surrogacy arrangements.
What if the pregnancy doesn’t result in a live birth?
Professional surrogacy contracts ensure you’re compensated for your time and commitment regardless of pregnancy outcome. Your base compensation typically isn’t contingent on live birth, recognizing the significant commitment you’ve made.
Get detailed information about surrogate compensation and what to expect financially.
What Should I Expect from the Surrogacy Journey?
How involved are intended parents during pregnancy?
This varies by arrangement and personal preferences. Some intended parents attend every appointment, while others prefer periodic updates. You’ll discuss communication preferences, appointment attendance, and involvement levels during the matching process to ensure everyone’s comfortable.
Do I stay in touch after delivery?
Post-delivery relationships vary widely. Some surrogates maintain close friendships with intended parents and receive ongoing updates about the child, while others prefer to step back after completing their journey. Both approaches are normal and healthy.
What support do I get throughout the process?
Quality agencies provide comprehensive support including dedicated coordinators, access to counseling services, 24/7 availability for questions or concerns, and guidance through every step of the process. You’re never navigating this journey alone.
Explore the pros and cons of becoming a surrogate to understand the full experience.
Medical Questions: What Are the Health Requirements?
What medical tests will I need?
Comprehensive medical screening includes:
- Complete physical exam and medical history review
- Reproductive health evaluation and fertility testing
- Blood tests for infectious diseases and immunity
- Psychological evaluation and mental health assessment
- Sometimes additional tests based on your medical history
What if I have a medical condition?
Well-controlled chronic conditions like treated thyroid issues or managed diabetes don’t automatically disqualify you, but they’ll need evaluation by the medical team. The key is demonstrating that your condition is stable and won’t interfere with a healthy pregnancy.
Do I need to change my lifestyle?
You’ll need to maintain a healthy lifestyle during pregnancy (no smoking, drinking, or recreational drugs), take prescribed medications for the IVF process, and attend regular medical appointments. Most lifestyle changes are temporary and focused on pregnancy health.
What about my own future fertility?
Gestational surrogacy doesn’t impact your future fertility. Since you’re not using your own eggs and the medical process is similar to IVF, there’s no increased risk to your reproductive health from participating in surrogacy.
Learn more about surrogate health requirements and what to expect medically.
How Do I Know Which Agency to Choose?
Should I work with an agency or go independent?
While independent surrogacy is possible, working with a reputable agency provides crucial protections, professional support, legal guidance, and comprehensive services that make your journey safer and more successful. Agencies handle complex logistics you’d otherwise manage yourself.
What makes a good surrogacy agency?Look for agencies that offer:
- Comprehensive screening and matching services
- Independent legal representation for surrogates
- Transparent compensation packages
- 24/7 support throughout your journey
- Strong track record and positive surrogate testimonials
- Clear communication and professional staff.
What questions should I ask potential agencies?
Ask about their screening process, compensation packages, support services, legal protections, success rates, and surrogate testimonials. Don’t hesitate to ask tough questions about how they handle complications or difficult situations.
How do I know if an agency is right for me?
Trust your instincts. A good agency will make you feel supported, not pressured. They’ll answer all your questions honestly, provide clear information about processes and compensation, and make you feel confident about your decision.
Get guidance on how to be a good surrogate and find resources for choosing intended parents.
Still Have Questions?
Every woman considering surrogacy has unique questions and concerns. While this FAQ covers the most common questions, you might have specific situations or concerns that need personalized attention.
Ready to get your specific questions answered? Talk to a specialist today who can provide detailed guidance about your unique situation and help you understand exactly what surrogacy would look like for you.
You can also explore American Surrogacy’s preparation resources for additional insights into the surrogacy journey or check out comprehensive surrogacy questions from other women considering this path.